It's now 15.03 and the birthday wishes on my Facebook page are still appearing, over 240 at this point.
This is WONDERFUL, by the way. A huge thank you to everyone who has wished me a happy birthday, sent pics of cakes (with files in them - LOL) naked men with cake covering any bits that might offend FB's delicate sensibilities.....
What does p*** me off, however, is the post that keeps popping up from Facebook - "Enjoy your special day!"
I'd enjoy it a helluva lot more if I was able to THANK all these people!!!!
*breathes deeply* *counts to ten* *counts to twenty cos ten sure ain't workin'*
This is me thanking everyone. I CAN see all your posts - I just can't reply to them.
Sunday, 11 October 2015
Thursday, 8 October 2015
Anyone want a free book?
Hi, everyone. *waves from Facebook jail*
Yeah, I'm still in here... don't get me started.
A HUGE thank you to everyone who bought a copy of First - and I hope you liked it.
Today I have a free book for you. It's a story I wrote for a charity anthology exactly two years ago - Burning First Kiss - and now that it's mine again, I'm giving it away to those who haven't read it.
But please don't expect a story like First or any of the Collars & Cuffs series.
(You'll know what I mean when you read it)
It's available on All Romance and Smashwords. The beautiful cover is by the always wonderful Meredith Russell.
Yeah, I'm still in here... don't get me started.
A HUGE thank you to everyone who bought a copy of First - and I hope you liked it.
Today I have a free book for you. It's a story I wrote for a charity anthology exactly two years ago - Burning First Kiss - and now that it's mine again, I'm giving it away to those who haven't read it.
But please don't expect a story like First or any of the Collars & Cuffs series.
(You'll know what I mean when you read it)
It's available on All Romance and Smashwords. The beautiful cover is by the always wonderful Meredith Russell.
When Seb’s golden retreiver Honey runs off along the cliff
during his early morning walk, the last thing he expects to find is Phillip,
standing there at the edge, the sea pounding the rocks beneath him. So Seb
isn’t really surprised to hear the voice of his dead partner in his head…
Do something, love…
When Honey won’t leave Phillip’s side, Seb does the only
thing he can think of – invites Phillip to come home with him for breakfast.
Something in the quiet man touches him, and he wants to know more.
And leaving Phillip standing on that cliff is not an option.
I hope you like it. Let me know your thoughts on Goodreads
See you back on Facebook when they let me out, and if you're going to GRL, come say hi! Just be warned - I hug ;-)
Saturday, 3 October 2015
Facebook, you are p****** me off!
Does anyone else smell something fishy about all of this?
I mean, the timing, and everything?
First was released on Monday September 21st. I'd done some promotion on Facebook, with a couple of ads. If you haven't done these before, once you've submitted an ad, Facebook then checks it. They did refuse one, once. Said there was too much nudity in it. (Like I'd put out an ad like that..... the very thought!)
Anyhoo, once it's checked, they email you and tell you it's a go.
Tuesday 22nd... it's just gone 9pm in the UK, dinner is over and I'm waiting for a Skype call with Dirk Caber. I check my phone, and find Messenger has just logged me out. So has Facebook.
"Oh, S**T!"
"What's wrong?" asks the hubby.
I tell him. THEN I tell him that the last two times this happened was when FB blocked me.
"What have you done?"
"NOTHING!"
Dirk pops up on WhatsApp. "What's going on? All your parts of our FB Chat conversation have just disappeared."
I open up the laptop. There's a little box on FB telling me that someone has reported a link to Amazon. Not an image - a link. I start taking screenshots of everything - Jesse Jackman taught me well! Then they drop the bombshell - I'm blocked from posting for THIRTY DAYS.
You're kidding, right?
I Skype Dirk and tell him what's going on. I was not the calmest of people by this point. (If you know Dirk, just ask him...) Then the threeway conversation begins - I find I can message on FB, I just can't post or comment, so I have Jesse on Chat, who's talking to Dirk on his phone, who's talking to both of us... I send Jesse all the screenshots and info I have, which isn't a lot. What really p***** me off is that there seems to be no way to contact FB. Jesse starts putting together a post, bless him, while Dirk is doing his best to calm me down - the glass of wine helped, too.
Actually, he did pretty good.
The hubby walks in at this point and says hi to Dirk - he's sort of getting used to seeing him on my laptop - and then says, "Nice breasts, Dirk. I'm assuming it's your breasts that got the cover banned because there was certainly nothing else showing!"
Dirk laughs his ass off.
And that's what p***** me off most - Facebook's Community Standards regarding nudity, which apparently the cover of First contravenes:
"We remove photographs of people displaying genitals or focusing in on fully exposed buttocks. We also restrict some images of female breasts if they include the nipple, but we always allow photos of women actively engaged in breastfeeding or showing breasts with post-mastectomy scarring. We also allow photographs of paintings, sculptures and other art that depicts nude figures. Restrictions on the display of both nudity and sexual activity also apply to digitally created content unless the content is posted for educational, humorous or satirical purposes. Explicit images of sexual intercourse are prohibited. Descriptions of sexual acts that go into vivid detail may also be removed."
I mean, the timing, and everything?
First was released on Monday September 21st. I'd done some promotion on Facebook, with a couple of ads. If you haven't done these before, once you've submitted an ad, Facebook then checks it. They did refuse one, once. Said there was too much nudity in it. (Like I'd put out an ad like that..... the very thought!)
Anyhoo, once it's checked, they email you and tell you it's a go.
Tuesday 22nd... it's just gone 9pm in the UK, dinner is over and I'm waiting for a Skype call with Dirk Caber. I check my phone, and find Messenger has just logged me out. So has Facebook.
"Oh, S**T!"
"What's wrong?" asks the hubby.
I tell him. THEN I tell him that the last two times this happened was when FB blocked me.
"What have you done?"
"NOTHING!"
Dirk pops up on WhatsApp. "What's going on? All your parts of our FB Chat conversation have just disappeared."
I open up the laptop. There's a little box on FB telling me that someone has reported a link to Amazon. Not an image - a link. I start taking screenshots of everything - Jesse Jackman taught me well! Then they drop the bombshell - I'm blocked from posting for THIRTY DAYS.
You're kidding, right?
I Skype Dirk and tell him what's going on. I was not the calmest of people by this point. (If you know Dirk, just ask him...) Then the threeway conversation begins - I find I can message on FB, I just can't post or comment, so I have Jesse on Chat, who's talking to Dirk on his phone, who's talking to both of us... I send Jesse all the screenshots and info I have, which isn't a lot. What really p***** me off is that there seems to be no way to contact FB. Jesse starts putting together a post, bless him, while Dirk is doing his best to calm me down - the glass of wine helped, too.
Actually, he did pretty good.
The hubby walks in at this point and says hi to Dirk - he's sort of getting used to seeing him on my laptop - and then says, "Nice breasts, Dirk. I'm assuming it's your breasts that got the cover banned because there was certainly nothing else showing!"
Dirk laughs his ass off.
And that's what p***** me off most - Facebook's Community Standards regarding nudity, which apparently the cover of First contravenes:
"We remove photographs of people displaying genitals or focusing in on fully exposed buttocks. We also restrict some images of female breasts if they include the nipple, but we always allow photos of women actively engaged in breastfeeding or showing breasts with post-mastectomy scarring. We also allow photographs of paintings, sculptures and other art that depicts nude figures. Restrictions on the display of both nudity and sexual activity also apply to digitally created content unless the content is posted for educational, humorous or satirical purposes. Explicit images of sexual intercourse are prohibited. Descriptions of sexual acts that go into vivid detail may also be removed."
So.... please, take a long, hard look at this cover and tell me exactly how it contravenes FB standards. Hmm?
Jesse wrote a wonderful post on FB and people used it to complain to FB - the only way to do this was to report a technical problem. His post went out on the 22nd, and people wrote immediately. To my knowledge, the first responses from FB arrived yesterday - October 2nd - and were an automatic response. In other words, no help at all.
The truly amazing thing that came out of all this?
Authors, readers, friends - there was such overwhelming support on FB that I was rendered speechless. (Yeah, it does happen occasionally :P ) People like Alexa Land who got people to post the link everywhere, in support. Friends who changed their profile pics to the cover, to show their support. Kristy Eichelberger, bless her, who has posted the blurb for First in at least twenty FB groups EVERY DAY since it happened. My wonderful group - Helena, Jason, Sue, Serena, Patricia, James, Bev, Debra, Lily, and sooooo many more of you - who shared links and reviews. Will Parkinson, who told people what had happened in the first place.
When someone in a group suggested that it could have been a wonderful bit of marketing on my part or the part of someone else, my fans stepped in to put him right. (I should stress he never once said that I did this, it was more of a 'what if...?' scenario) Jesse weighed in too and put my case forward - I'm still blushing at his sweet words - and then there were so many PMs that I think they caused a meltdown!
So where are we now?
I haven't been able to appeal. My only way to contact FB is to try to post something, whereupon I get the following message:
See the little bit that says, 'let us know'? I've used that four times so far, and yet not one word from FB. And as you can no doubt see, I have nineteen days and so many hours left.... SIGH. I'm trying not to be despondent - there is enough going on in my life right now without FB adding to it - but yes, there are times I get really frustrated. I am very thankful to those people who share posts / links / reviews for me. I AM still here, honest....
If you're one of the wonderful people who's supported me - THANK YOU! And please, keep right on doing it.
This is KC Wells, reporting to you from Facebook Jail, signing off.
http://www.amazon.com/First-K-C-Wells-ebook/dp/B0155KSKJC
Friday, 25 September 2015
Rowena Rumpus interviews Scott Masters!
Hi, porn fans! Rowena Rumpus here. Welcome to a very special edition of
PornULike. In a departure from my usual reportage
on what’s coming up – pun most definitely
intended – in the world of porn, today I’m interviewing the gorgeous Scott Masters [Scott waves a
hand] as part of his celebration of twenty years gracing our screens with that
magnificent bod of his. [Looks Scott up and down] Mm mmm, honey, you’re even
better lookin’ in the flesh. [fans self]
Scott: [laughs] Why, thank you, ma’am.
Rowena: I’ve been watching you for more years than I care to remember.
Put it this way – I remember watching you and the absolutely delicious Armando DiMarco in some of
your first scenes together.
Scott: Surely not. You can’t be that old!
Rowena: [gasps] Why, Scott, you Southern gentleman, you! [grins] You
certainly know how to sweet-talk a girl. I could just sit here and listen to
that Georgia drawl all morning, but I have questions, so let’s get started,
shall we?
Scott: [leans back into couch] Fire away, honey.
Rowena: As I stated earlier, it's been twenty years since you first
graced our screens. How did the magnificent Scott Masters get started in porn?
Scott: I finished high school and went off to college, where I majored
in business. I graduated after four years from Georgia Tech. All through
college I worked in bars. Back then I was earning $300 a night as a barback. I
worked my way up to bartender at the Armory in midtown Atlanta, working nights,
including weeknights. It wasn’t long before I realized I was making more money
working in gay bars than I would be in a job related to my degree. So I stuck
with that.
Rowena: You still work behind a bar, right?
Scott: Yes, ma’am. I work in Woofs, a sports bar in Atlanta, three,
sometimes four nights a week.
Rowena: [holds up hand] Just give me a minute, all right? I’m picturing
you behind a bar, shaking up a mean cocktail. [shivers] Woof is right! I bet
you have the guys lining up to be served by you. So how did you go from
bartender to porn star?
Scott: I was working at Backstreet at the time. I was twenty-three.
Well, one night this guy starts hitting on me. He was gorgeous, cute, sexy, and
I was flattered because I’d seen him in porn movies. I couldn’t believe he was
even talking to me. He sat in front of me all night, chatting away, flirting
like crazy. Suddenly there’s this guy next to him—turns out he was a director
for a porn studio—and he’s asking me if I wanna do porn. Just like that. I was
saving up for a house, so the offer came at a really good time.
Rowena: Sounds like the dream job – being paid to be on your back.
[grins at Scott] or on all fours, tied up, tied down – you’ve certainly had a
diverse career, I’ll say that. I saw some of your scenes for Cronus’ Tough line.
My, my, honey – you in leather. I thought I’d died and gone to heaven. [fans
self rapidly]
Scott: [laughs] I loved shooting with them. It brought out a side to me
I’d never realized existed. But yeah, going back to how I got started… I was
twenty-three. I enjoyed having sex. I figured, why not get paid for doing
something I loved?
Rowena: There have to have been some memorable moments for you in all
that time. Are there any you can share with us?
Scott: What to choose? Shooting
with Raffaele D’Alancare, who was such a stream of ideas, and loved that I
loved and wanted to try every single one.
We filmed for thirteen hours straight, which would usually be a
completely ridiculous length for a shooting day, but we were having so much
fun! And I always loved working with Armando,
both while we were dating and after our split; we may not have worked out as a
couple, but we were always best friends and good colleagues. Funny, most of the really memorable moments
are the embarrassing ones, when everyone bursts out laughing. We look back and
smile now, but if I related any of them publicly, I’d probably be murdered in
my sleep by someone.
Rowena: [snickers] Twenty years.... my, my, you must have seen some
changes during that time. Do you think porn has changed much?
Scott: Hell, yes! You go back and look at porn fifteen, twenty years ago
or even further back than that, and go back to the days when porn was looking
for creative ways to keep guys in the theater. Look at the story lines they
would create or the interesting ways they would have of presenting sex. The
amount of sheer creativity that went into everything that wasn’t sex, that was
so much more a part of the filming. The actual sex used to be a relatively
small part of the film. Nowadays it’s all very scene-based. You go online and
rent the one scene you want to watch. Nobody wants to spend huge amounts of
time watching dialogue first, you just want to get on with it. In fact, now I’m seeing that it’s not even
whole scenes. Studios are almost all
going to a pay-per-minute format, so nobody has to actually buy a whole scene. Don’t get me started on what that’s gonna do to the art form!
Rowena: Oh, honey, I remember the days of VHS. I would fast-forward
through the dialogue to get to the good stuff.
Scott: My point exactly. And filming has changed a lot, too. Back in the
day they didn’t do twenty minutes from this angle, twenty from that. They cut
it like real sex. It would take time for the sex to happen and then it would be
quick.
Rowena: You miss those days?
Scott: [smiles] Then, the reward was the sex, not
just the cum shot. That’s why I like filming with studios like ManFactory, which
does a little bit of scripting. We make it as brief as possible, but in some
cases you need time to set it up, especially if I’m doing a scene with a much
younger guy. You don’t want people looking at it and thinking it’s pederasty.
And let’s face it, kids are so much more confident these days. A lot of the time in the real world it’s the
kid who initiates now.
Rowena: That actually brings me on to another question. A lot of your
scenes nowadays are with gay-for-pay performers. What are your views on that?
Scott: I don’t find them a problem, usually. There’s certainly nothing
that they’re doing that causes a problem. Most of them are very professional.
It's daunting enough when I’m into
my scene partner and it’s hot. Part of porn is making a connection with the
other person, because you’re about to stick your dick in them. You have to have
some kind of friendliness. Part of that is knowing you turn them on as well.
When you don’t have enough tits to turn on your scene partner, it can be a little
frustrating when you film for five minutes, he loses his hard-on because he’s
not turned on, and he has to go watch titty porn for the next five minutes. In
the meantime I lose my hard-on. Usually filming with gay-for-pay co-stars
means a long day.
Rowena: Surely there have to be huge numbers of perfectly willing and
capable gay men out there who can do the job, without resorting to hiring
straight boys to do this.
Scott: The only theory I have with ManFactory is that they are part of a
larger umbrella company that does mostly straight porn. ManFactory is their one
little gay red-headed stepchild. The straight side is not as constrained about
safer sex rules as the gay side, but they are concerned about transmission of
diseases. The straight side generally requires testing for diseases. And
although ManFactory is very strict on set, they don’t work with any HIV
positive performers, so I just wonder if it’s simply easier to hire guys who
aren’t as likely to be an expose risk.
That maybe means straight guys. And
as a result there are a slew of really great performers that they can’t hire
because they’re positive.
Rowena: But there are studios who do, right?
Scott: [nods] Rock Hard Men out in LA does, as does TopMen.
Rowena: Speaking of which, I've been taking a look at the list of
studios you've filmed for. Thirty-odd, some of which I don’t even recognize the
names of. My, haven't you been a busy boy? But one thing I
have noticed - you've consistently filmed with studios who produce condom porn.
Is this something you feel strongly about? What are your views on barebacking?
Or should I phrase that differently - your views on those studios who produce
bareback porn?
Scott: When I started out, most
studios filmed porn with condoms. We were only just at the end of the fullest
part of the AIDS crisis, huge numbers of porn actors had died of the infection
in the previous ten years, and everyone was being far more careful to take care
of themselves and each other. I know things are a little different now, what
with HIV medications being reasonably effective and there being preventative
measures like PrEP out there, but old habits and concerns die hard, ya
know? I still want to take absolutely
good care of myself and anyone I work with. Not from just HIV, but any other
infection out there. Look, I’ll be the first to say that there’s a right and
appropriate time to dispense with condoms, like when you’ve found your life
partner and are being exclusive with him, or at least going bareback
exclusively with him. For the rest out there, though, I still think it’s
important to be someone willing to stand up for the fact that condoms might
alter the feel of sex, but they don’t diminish the connection that sex should
reflect, and hence should still be used as a viable protection measure.
Rowena: Some might suggest that
the growing number of studios doing bareback is due to greater use of PrEP. I
know there's a lot of misinformation out there about Truvada - care to share
your opinions?
Scott: It’s no surprise that bareback
is becoming so prevalent. I mean, if you fantasize about sex, do you think
about stopping to roll on a condom? And if porn is about fantasy, it makes
sense that condomless porn is so popular. I’d like to think that PrEP may be
part of that equation, but I think it’s an excuse to justify what is otherwise
a business decision. Times are hard for porn these days; these new ways it
sells have drastically reduced how much money a studio makes. Naturally many
have revised their policies to reflect the customer demand. I’d have a lot more
respect for those studios if they would just ’fess up that this is their
motivation, instead of hiding behind a pseudo-moral façade of “PrEP makes it
all okay.” It doesn’t. It only addresses one disease of a panoply of them. It’s
not even really the most dangerous one any more.
Rowena: Wow. Thanks for that, Scott. You’re a real ‘shoot-from-the-hip’
kinda guy, aren’t ya?
Scott: [grins] So I’ve been told, on more than one occasion.
Rowena: So, sweetie, will it be another twenty years for Scott Masters?
What do you see in your crystal balls - I mean, ball? [snicker]
Scott: [laughs] To be honest? I don’t know. The industry is changing all
the time, and I’m starting to feel like I don’t fit. These days in most of my
scenes I’m either the Daddy or the Bear. Can you say, typecasting? [Rowena
chuckles] So I rarely feel challenged
any more on set. And things are changing
in my personal life, too.
Rowena: Oh? Anything you’d care to share with your fans?
Scott: [smiles] Right now? Not really, but I’m sorta hopeful that things
are moving in the right direction with a certain someone. And maybe it’s time
for a few changes in my professional life too. [grins] You’ll have to wait and
see.
Rowena: And on that note – you tease! – we come to the end of our
interview! Thank you, Scott Masters, it’s been wonderful having you on my
couch. [chuckles] That came out all wrong – or maybe it was just wishful
thinking on my part.
Scott: Thank you, Rowena.
Monday, 14 September 2015
All change....
Yeah, I know.... I'm really bad at blogging.
But I figured if I was going to change the look of the blog, maybe it would be a good idea to, you know, actually use it???
So this is advance notice.
THERE WILL BE BLOG POSTS. Promise
See you soon
But I figured if I was going to change the look of the blog, maybe it would be a good idea to, you know, actually use it???
So this is advance notice.
THERE WILL BE BLOG POSTS. Promise
See you soon
Tuesday, 10 February 2015
A Valentine's Day Giveaway!
An Unlocked Heart has just been released in audiobook!
Not only that - within three weeks, Trusting Thomas will be available also.
So to celebrate, I'm giving away an audiobook!
To be in with a chance of winning, leave a comment about the series so far...
Who is your favorite couple? What's your favorite moment and from which book?
Do you have a favorite quote/line? Whose book are you DYING to see written?
You have until the end of Sunday 15th February to leave your comments. The lucky winner will be chosen at random and emailed.
So.... GOOD LUCK!
Not only that - within three weeks, Trusting Thomas will be available also.
So to celebrate, I'm giving away an audiobook!
To be in with a chance of winning, leave a comment about the series so far...
Who is your favorite couple? What's your favorite moment and from which book?
Do you have a favorite quote/line? Whose book are you DYING to see written?
You have until the end of Sunday 15th February to leave your comments. The lucky winner will be chosen at random and emailed.
So.... GOOD LUCK!
Monday, 25 August 2014
Final Exam is finally out!
Phew.
One thing I have learned while writing this book: do NOT leave sixteen months between a book and its sequel.
It was incredibly difficult to get back into the world of Michael, Sean, Evan, Daniel, Josh and Chris...
And yet once I was back in? The boys were there - and they'd grown up a little.
They needed to. This last book was always going to be the tough one to write.
Writing about Daniel's abuse, and Josh's abduction - those were tough enough, but there were times when I was crying as I was typing Final Exam.
So how have the boys matured in this long gap?
Well, there are fewer pet names, for a start. And Evan and Daniel have emerged as a really strong couple.
It would be easy to think that Josh & Chris were strong, too, but they've only been together such a relatively short time, and they're still growing.
But as for Michael & Sean...
When I started to write their story, back in February 2012, I hadn't anticipated writing a series. Half way through, I knew I'd write Evan's book next. The idea for Josh and Chris came a short while after that. But I knew what was going to happen with Sean in April 2012. I had all the research sitting in a folder, waiting until I was ready. Except that other books came into the picture, namely the men of Collars & Cuffs, and the Personal series.
In the summer of 2013, Elizabeth North and I came up with a list of titles that I would write, and the order in which to write them. It was time to end the series.
But is it the end?
Well, there's a wedding to look forward to, for a start, and a graduation.
Not to mention a pair of young men who are pushing their boundaries.
Yeah, I think it's safe to say there are a few novellas lurking around somewhere, waiting to be written.
Watch this space :)
One thing I have learned while writing this book: do NOT leave sixteen months between a book and its sequel.
It was incredibly difficult to get back into the world of Michael, Sean, Evan, Daniel, Josh and Chris...
And yet once I was back in? The boys were there - and they'd grown up a little.
They needed to. This last book was always going to be the tough one to write.
Writing about Daniel's abuse, and Josh's abduction - those were tough enough, but there were times when I was crying as I was typing Final Exam.
So how have the boys matured in this long gap?
Well, there are fewer pet names, for a start. And Evan and Daniel have emerged as a really strong couple.
It would be easy to think that Josh & Chris were strong, too, but they've only been together such a relatively short time, and they're still growing.
But as for Michael & Sean...
When I started to write their story, back in February 2012, I hadn't anticipated writing a series. Half way through, I knew I'd write Evan's book next. The idea for Josh and Chris came a short while after that. But I knew what was going to happen with Sean in April 2012. I had all the research sitting in a folder, waiting until I was ready. Except that other books came into the picture, namely the men of Collars & Cuffs, and the Personal series.
In the summer of 2013, Elizabeth North and I came up with a list of titles that I would write, and the order in which to write them. It was time to end the series.
But is it the end?
Well, there's a wedding to look forward to, for a start, and a graduation.
Not to mention a pair of young men who are pushing their boundaries.
Yeah, I think it's safe to say there are a few novellas lurking around somewhere, waiting to be written.
Watch this space :)
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